Overcome Self-Doubt and Market Your Book with Confidence!
Do you ever feel like you’re shouting “Buy my book!” into the void, and nobody seems to care? Maybe you hesitate to even post about your book because you’re unsure what to say. Or worse, you wonder if you’re just bad at marketing.
Trust me, you’re not alone! Self-doubt is a huge challenge for many authors when it comes to promoting their books. But here’s the good news: confidence isn’t something you’re born with or without. It’s something you build through taking action.
In this blog post, I’m going to give you actionable steps to market your books with confidence, even if marketing feels totally out of your comfort zone. You’ll learn how to overcome self-doubt, connect with the right readers, and maybe even enjoy promoting your book!
Why is Book Marketing So Hard for Authors?
For many of us, writing is where we shine. We’re often introverts who love spending hours crafting stories, creating worlds, and developing characters. But marketing? That feels like stepping onto a completely unfamiliar stage.
Here’s what often happens:
- You’re afraid of coming across as too salesy.
- You don’t know what to say or how to say it.
- You compare yourself to super successful authors and feel like you don’t measure up.
- You’re waiting until you “figure it all out” before you take any action.
Sound familiar?

Confidence Comes From Action, Not Waiting
The truth is, confidence comes from doing, not from waiting until you feel ready. If you wait until you feel 100% prepared, you might never get started!
So, instead of focusing on everything you don’t know, let’s focus on simple, small steps that will actually move you forward.
Reframe Marketing: It’s About Connection, Not Just Selling
Marketing isn’t about blasting your book out there and hoping someone listens. It’s about connecting with the right readers in an authentic way.
Think of it like this: you’re not just selling a book; you’re offering an experience.
- If you write romance, you’re offering swoon-worthy love stories.
- If you write thrillers, you’re delivering edge-of-your-seat suspense.
- If you write fantasy, you’re creating a world for readers to escape into.
Instead of thinking, “How can I convince people to buy my book?”, ask yourself, “How can I help the right readers discover what they’re already going to love?” When you make that shift, marketing starts to feel a whole lot more natural.
Set Simple, Measurable Goals to Build Momentum
Instead of setting vague goals like “I need to sell more books,” start with specific, achievable ones. Small wins add up over time and build your confidence.
Here are some ideas:
- Post about your book three times a week (mix in other posts, too!).
- Grow your email list by 5% this month.
- Reach out to three book influencers.
See? These are all things you can actually do.
Speaking of email lists, at Finding Your Indie, we often have challenges in our Hive Mind group. One month, it might be to grow our email list by 5%! It’s simple, actionable, and it works. If you want to connect with a community of like-minded authors, you can learn more about our Hivemind Membership.

Learn From Others: Success Leaves Clues
You don’t have to reinvent the wheel! Pay attention to what’s already working for authors in your genre.
Here are some strategies:
- Follow successful authors and take notes on their strategies. What are they posting? How are they engaging with readers?
- Stay updated on book marketing trends. Whether it’s TikTok, email marketing, or ads, see what’s new and effective.
- Listen to podcasts and read books about book promotion to stay inspired and learn new techniques.
Success leaves clues, so pay attention to them! Want to get started? Check out these helpful resources:
- Join our free Facebook group
- Use our tools to run your ads and marketing like a pro
- Explore our Finding Your Indie Courses
Simplify Your Marketing with the Right Tools
One of the biggest reasons authors feel stuck is because they don’t even know where to start. That’s why having an actionable, step-by-step plan can be a major advantage.
Instead of trying to piece everything together yourself, get a roadmap that takes out the guesswork. Bonnie and I have a course called “Boss Mode” that does exactly that. It helps authors plan and execute their book marketing with confidence and without feeling overwhelmed. It gives you structure and strategy that you can put into action right away. It’s open for enrollment now! Learn more about Boss Mode here.

You Can Do It: Strategy, Consistency, and Confidence
Remember, every successful author started where you are right now. The difference is, they took action, one step at a time.
You don’t need to be a marketing expert. You need strategy, consistency, and the confidence to keep going. And you can overcome self-doubt.
So, tell me in the comments: what’s one small marketing action you’re going to take this week? I’d love to cheer you on!
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Disclaimer: These are personal opinions and are subjective. With too many variables in play, what works for one person won’t work for others. We love having discussions, but arguing over performance between two authors or even two series (even if by the same author) is futile.